I have noticed that many times parents are not aware of what they are exposing their children to when it comes to adult topics. A child’s development and maturity is very different from an adult’s. Even if your child is very verbal and appears mature for their age, they are still children.
Are you aware of where your children are when you are talking about adult topics? Can they overhear you talking to a friend on the phone or in the other room? Do you have adult themed conversations right in front of your child? Do you directly share your adult concerns with your children?
It is not for your child to worry about the family finances. It is not your child’s business if you and your partner or friends are having a disagreement. It is not your child’s job to support you emotionally.
Exposing your child to adult size worries or concerns just causes your child to be anxious and confused. They often don’t have the maturity to handle the issues. They also don’t have any control over them. They can’t bring in more money or make their parents get along.
There needs to be a clear boundary between adult themed topics and children. If you are worried about your finances or job find another adult to share with, away from you child’s hearing. If you are having trouble with your partner, a
friend or other family members handle it directly. Don’t share your thoughts and feelings with your child. If they sense tension you can acknowledge it while letting them know it’s your business not theirs.
The bottom line is your child just needs to know they are safe and cared for. The adults in their lives need to be aware of what they are exposing their children to.
It is extremely difficult to see your child in pain when he or she is teething, but it is an inevitable milestone that each parent has to face. It is part of the growing pains of being a baby, and a parent, and each person will begin the teething process at a different time. Teething symptoms may include irritability, drooling, biting or gnawing, cheek rubbing, diarrhea, fever or insomnia. Fortunately, there are natural steps to help ease your child's pain.
Most children start teething from the fourth or fifth month: about the time they are switching to solid foods. Preemies will start later than other children, but this is an upside: you might get a chance to sleep through the night before the teething begins!
When babies start cutting teeth, the front teeth appear first, and then the molars come along three to six months later. By the time toddler are three years old, he or she may have a full set of baby teeth –20 in all. Teething pain may
start a month or two before the first tooth appears, since the gums become swollen and tender as the teeth start to exert upward pressure on them. Molars in particular can cause problems in children who had no problem cutting incisors
because the breadth of the back teeth can cause more pressure and pain on the gums.
Teething vs. Ear Infections
As parents, our job is twofold: try to keep the little one comfortable by using home remedies and various means of pain relief; and, making sure that the doubled irritability of our toddler does not mask actual illness such as an ear infection. Ear infections occur in children of this age, and the pain may cause crying, refusal of food and other signs similar to those of teething. In fact, many medical personnel tend to put nearly everything down to teething, making it more
important than ever that parents be vigilant and assertive in making sure their children's medical needs are being met.
The main difference between teething pain and ear infection pain is that teething pain seems to diminish at times: pain from ear infection worsens. The other very important symptom of an ear infection is fever: fever begins climbs
and worsens. Some children may run a low, intermittent fever while teething, but it shouldn’t get worse and should never be high. Doctors are of divided opinion on the issue of teething fever: some say it's totally unrelated to teething and
others say it can happen. The fact is that some children do run a low fever when teething and others don't. But if your child has a climbing fever and reaches more than 104 F , seek your pediatrician.
Wet, wring out, and place in the freezer. You may even choose to dip the washcloth in chamomile tea before freezing. A wet washcloth that has been in the freezer for about half an hour may provide some soothing comfort for your teething child, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. It is an inexpensive and simple remedy that may help alleviate pain. Be sure to store the wash cloth in a plastic zip-lock bag when freezing and to wash it after each use to keep it clean and safe for your baby's mouth. Try different degrees of coldness to see what works best. If the frozen
washcloth is too cold, you can also try just dampening it with cold water.
2. Wooden Teething Toys and Rings
Many teething products to help alleviate pain are available on the market, including teething rings and hard rubber toys. They come in different shapes, textures and usually have a handle for easy grasping. Sometimes parents freeze these toys, but this is not advisable, according to the Children's Hospital Boston. Frozen toys may be too hard and hurt your child's gums. Be sure to not purchase teething toys that contain phthalates. Phthalates are substances that are sometimes added to plastic toys to make them soft, flexible and durable, and long-term use may be harmful to children's health. Try wooden cooking spoons, measuring cups and the famous amber teething necklace.
3. Gum Massage
If your child is having problems getting to sleep because of irritated or swollen gums, a gentle massaging using your
clean finger may help. Massaging the gums for two minutes or so may provide some soothing counter pressure. Rubbing an ice cube wrapped in a handkerchief, washcloth or cheesecloth along the gums may also provide some relief. Try home
remedies like rubbing the gums with diluted clove oil or vanilla extract. Cloves contain oils that have warming, numbing properties, so that even holding a whole clove against a sore tooth with your tongue can ease the pain long enough to get to your dentist. Clove oil can be rubbed on sore gums to relieve pain, but only use a tiny amount: too much can upset your baby's stomach. Vanilla is a home remedy may work in three ways. First, merely rubbing baby's gums can ease the pain by creating opposite pressure; second, the alcohol in vanilla extract will create a warm sensation that is temporarily comforting. The third way this remedy may work is in the calming properties of vanilla itself. Vanilla is known as a soothing yet energizing agent that reduces anxiety and promotes feelings of well-being. Besides that, vanilla has long been used to cure stomach distress: a baby whose stomach is mildly upset from crying or swallowing large amounts of drool may find vanilla soothing to the tummy as well as the nerves. Many grandparents also swear by rubbing a touch of alcohol onto the gums for the numbing factor, such as Brandy or Bourbon.
4. Cold and Frozen Treats
Learn the trick of serving frozen treats when toddlers start teething! The cold will feel good on their gums, and it gets them to eat something nutritious. Toddlers love to eat frozen peas, suck on frozen strawberry pops and crunch fruit juice ice spooned from paper cups.
Chilled, slushy food such as applesauce, mashed bananas and pureed peaches may provide some numbing and comfort for teething children, according to The Mayo Clinic. Cold carrots, frozen scallions and frozen celery are also great for
babies to chew on during the day. When served cold, these foods may be more appetizing than when eaten at warm or room-temperature. Teething biscuits and crackers are also good for babies. Be sure to only give these types of foods if
your child has had them before. Because certain foods may cause an upset stomach or an allergic reaction, introducing new food to a teething child who is already in pain is not the best time to test diet tolerance.
An alternative to the messy mesh feeder (designed to hold frozen fruit for babies to chew on) is a knotted handkerchief or a muslin or cheesecloth sack. Many health food stores sell re-usable tea bags in non-dyed cotton or eco-friendly hemp cloths, which are ideal for the purpose and food safe. Be sure that the tie strings are cut shorter than 9 inches, as longer strings can represent a strangulation hazard for babies.
5. Over-The-Counter Products
The Mayo Clinic recommends that you not give your teething child any aspirin-containing products since they
may cause Reyes' disease, a condition that affects major bodily organs, especially the brain and liver. Instead of aspirin, consider acetaminophen or ibuprofen to help alleviate pain. Be careful in giving these medications to your
children, however, as overdosing may occur. Too much acetaminophen can cause liver damage and overdosing on ibuprofen can cause stomach or intestinal damage. Rubbing any medication (including teething gels) on the gums is not advisable as it may be washed away by saliva. Furthermore, too much medication on the gums may numb your child's throat, which may affect their gag reflex. Be sure to ask your pediatrician about pain-relieving medications for teething before administering them to your child.
6. Homeopathic Alternatives
Homeopathy is an alternative branch of medicine that relies on tiny amounts of substances to affect a cure by stimulating the body's natural immune response. It is safe and holistic, and the amounts of medicine used are extremely dilute.
a. Hyland’s Teething Tablets or Boiron Camilia
Both the Hyland’s and the Boiron (aff) brands are multi-dose homeopathic remedies. The concept here is that though not all babies have the same symptoms, most babies will respond to one of the ingredients included in the multi-dose treatments. You could achieve the same effect by testing various single-dose remedies on your child until you find the one that works best. No baby needs all of the ingredients at once; they’re just included for convenience to cover the most likely candidates for a large number of babies’ symptoms. Bear in mind that Boiron Camilia is a liquid and a vegan solution, but Hylands is not, due to its inclusion of lactose in the tablet formulation. Also, be aware that parabens are
listed among the ingredients of the Hyland’s teething gel, but not the teething tabs. Parabens have been potentially linked (although inconclusively) to cancer, so if you’re the cautious type you might prefer the Hyland’s tablets.
*Please also note that there was a recall in the Hyland’s Teething Tablets in 2010. Please see the end of this article for details regarding the recall.
b. Natural Licorice Stick
Other homemade remedies include letting your infant chew on a natural licorice stick (the herb, not candy!) You can find natural licorice in health food stores: real licorice feels cool and also numbs the gums when your baby chews on it.
c. 3. Wild Fennel
Wild Fennel is a relative of licorice which grows in areas in Northern California and other parts of the country. The
feathery, fern-like leaves and hollow stalks can be chewed or sucked for a cooling, licorice-tasting treat.
Working with FDA, Standard Homeopathic Company Voluntarily
Recalls Hyland’s Teething Tablets to Address Manufacturing
Los Angeles, October 23, 2010 – Standard Homeopathic Company, in consultation
with the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA), is voluntarily recalling its
Hyland’s Teething Tablets. The company is initiating this recall in an abundance
of caution due to an FDA investigation of its manufacturing facility. Hyland’s
Teething Tablets are manufactured in the United States and distributed
throughout North America.
The Hyland’s Teething Tablets UPC codes included
in the recall are:
1. Hyland’s Teething Tablets, 125 tablets, UPC # 3 54973
2. Hyland’s Teething Tablets, 250 tablets, UPC # 3 54973 75042
Hyland’s Teething Tablets, 125 tablets, UPC # 3 54973 75066
Teething Tablets, 50 tablets, UPC # 3 54973 75044
5. Hyland’s Teething
Tablets, 145 tablets, UPC # 3 54973 75121
6. Hyland’s Teething Tablets, Clip
Strip 6x125 tablets, UPC # 3 54973 35109
Adverse events have been reported
but the FDA has said that a conclusive link has NOT been determined. The
company, in working with the FDA, has identified manufacturing processes of
Teething Tablets that can be improved to ensure uniformity in dosage. As a
homeopathic product, Hyland’s Teething Tablets have a wide margin of safety that
protects consumers from harm.
After in-depth analysis, a comprehensive
review of the company’s adverse event report log, and more than 85 years of safe
usage, the company is confident that Hyland’s Teething Tablets are safe for
infants and toddlers.
In addition to the product recall, Standard Homeopathic
Company is refining its production, packaging and testing protocols. Throughout
the process, Standard Homeopathic Company will continue to closely monitor and
evaluate the situation and consult with FDA.
Consumers that are concerned
about the safety of the product may contact Standard Homeopathic Company for
instructions on a refund or replacement product. For these instructions or
information regarding how to return or dispose of the product, consumers should
log on to www.hylandsteething.com/recall or call 1-877-496-5044
(Monday-Friday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Eastern Time, and Saturday-Sunday 10 a.m. to 4
p.m. Eastern Time).
“We initiated this voluntary recall to ensure our
consumers know that their families’ safety and health are our top priorities,”
said Mark Phillips, PharmD, President and Chief Pharmacist of Standard
Homeopathic Company. “We are committed to maintaining and deserving the trust
they have placed in Hyland’s. We have worked for 107 years to build
relationships with our consumers. We intend to preserve that tradition of
Hyland’s Teething Tablets is a homeopathic product intended to
provide temporary relief of teething symptoms in children that is sold
over-the-counter (OTC) in retail outlets.
No other Standard Homeopathic
Company products are affected by this recall.
Over 100 years of experienced
and trusted company, Hylands did have a recall on its teething tablets on
October 23, 2010.
I'm definitely obsessed with healthy cooking and making sure that my kids get tons of nutritious foods daily. I love finding new recipes, and sneaking in veggies whenever I can! Below are Twelve brainy breakfast ideas that Ask Dr
Sears have posted online. I thought I'd share since they all sound yummy!!!!
Enjoy twelve brainy breakfast ideas. Try to incorporate into your child’s breakfast a mix of as many of these five foods as possible: eggs, yogurt, fruit, whole grains, and omega 3’s.
There are numerous reasons why parents choose to cloth diaper instead of using disposable diapers. Many do because of economics, others for the environment, but these are the top 5 reasons why parents choose cloth over plastic for the baby’s bottom.
In general, a parent choose cloth diapers for one of these reasons or a combination of these. I’d love to hear your reasons for using cloth diapers or making the switch to cloth and welcome you to post them here.
I love finding simple, healthy recipes for my toddler. I've posted many recipes before that incorporate sneaking veggies, protein and fruit into meals. I thought I would share some yummy breakfast ideas that are always a hit in my house. I swear, these recipes are super simple and easy to make.
Sweet Potato - Banana Pancakes
-Pancake Mix - I like Trader Joes's Multigrain Mix - Following directions on the box to make the mixture. ***I usually use a little less liquid due to the purees being added
-1/2 cup Sweet Potato Puree
-1/2 cup Banana Puree
-1tbsp vanilla protein powder (any kind you like)
-1 teaspoon cinnamon
Mix all ingredients. Use a non stick spray to make perfect pancakes that don't stick! Cook pancakes over medium heat for best results. You can even use fun cookie cutter shapes as well!
Oatmeal with Sweet Potatoes and Peanut Butter
1 package of instant oats - I like Trader Joe's Oats and Flax
1/4 cup of Sweet Potato Puree
1/4 tsp of ground flaxseed
1 Tsp Peanut Butter
1/4 cup of Milk - I use unsweetened vanilla almond milk
1 small handful of raisins
Stir instant oats, flaxseed and sweet potato puree together with water - usually enough to cover oats. Place in microwave for 90 seconds. Stir in peanut butter. When everything is nicely blended add your milk. Top off with a handful of raisins.
Cheesy Green Eggs with Toast Bites
1/4 cup shredded cheese
1/4 cup spinach puree
1 slice whole wheat bread
Scramble 3 eggs, add spinach puree and cheese. Cook over medium heat. Make sure to use non stick cooking spray for the perfect eggs!
- Toast Bites make a great side for the eggs. Add your child's favorite topping - jelly, butter, cream cheese or peanut butter
This was one of the things I was most confused about when I became a mom. On one hand, you want your child's toys to be clean and disinfected. On the other hand, you don't want to use harmful chemicals and cleaners on the toys that will be going right into your baby's mouth!
Did you know, according to some experts, that plain old white distilled vinegar is effective in killings bacteria and germs? Apparently white distilled vinegar has been a household cleaner for many generations.
Some of the other many uses of vinegar are toilet bowl cleaning, refridgerator cleaning, window cleaning, garbage disposal deodorizer and much more!
It looks like you can throw out all of your other cleaners and use vinegar for almost everything!
For baby toys, I usually mix one part vinegar and one part hot soapy water.
Check out the Heinz Vinegar website for cleaning ideas with vinegar.
Also, VinegarTips, 1001 ways to use vinegar
Cape Cod Moms